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"How do you pull back after having sex?"

Was out with W and A on tuesday for tea and a chat when W made that comment.

Exactly, I thought, How does anyone pull back from having emotions and feelings for another after performing such an intimate act of love-making?

"Straight guys can," I quipped.

"Yes, but we can't. Unless it's with a stranger whom we're not gonna see again. Doing it emotionlessly with someone we know as a friend or a love interest is almost impossible for us."

Yep, we are serious and emotional people who can't fuck and leave without feeling a sense of responsibility. That's the problem, ain't it? The reason why I felt sort of disgusted after my ex did the break-up sex stint.

"See," I said, "The problem with straight guys is that they just wanna fuck me and nothing more."

"That's not a bad thing what," W and A said, "There are people out there who can't even get laid in their lives even if they want to."

LOL! Now why didn't I see it that way? *Mischievous grin*

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buzz_cut From: [info]buzz_cut Date: 14th July 2005 16:13 (UTC) (Link)
You mean gay guys can't f**k and leave meh? Heh, I thought it's just a guy thing lah, regardless of orientation. Erm, but I could be wrong? :)

Must qualify leh mei ... straight guys can feel emotionally high too if we're having sex with a gal we love (I guess gals prefer to call it "love-making" huh? Sounds less, erm, wham-bam goobye ma'am. *lol*). And it can hurt pretty bad ok if the gal then walks out on us. *attempts sensitive gorilla look ... and fails!* LOL!
2dogsnme From: [info]2dogsnme Date: 14th July 2005 17:29 (UTC) (Link)
well, for the record, my friends who said that r gay. ;p aiyah, gay guys r more sensitive so while some of them can be promiscuous, they tend to be extremely loyal in a relationship.

But I still think it's a lot easier for straight guys to fuck n leave. I mean girls tend to associate sex with having a sort of emotional attachment somehow, so while some DO that, a lot still lose out in the end. Feel empty, somehow. Guys just leave satisfied.
buzz_cut From: [info]buzz_cut Date: 14th July 2005 19:04 (UTC) (Link)
Erm, I don't know enough gay guys to really say, but since gay guys are still essentially male, I guess the popular belief is that putting 2 together could mean less emotional red-tape (and more sex?), especially without marriage and children in the picture ... erm, not that I subscribe to such popular belief of coz. Heh! Hey, then what about lesbian sex ah? :P~

It's "easier" coz men are wired differently from women. Yeah, we are capable of responding to pure lust by seeking sexual gratification and nothing else. Still, that doesn't mean every guy will actually act on his lust lah, though he might certainly fantasise about it. The most DIY if buay tahan lor. LOL!

Mei, there are all kinds of guys lah ... players, non-players, "monks" (a.k.a. too scared/shy to approach women types). Even non-players can sometimes make mistakes in relationships. So I guess not every guy is in it for the sex (although it certainly is a perk *heh*) and walks away satisfied after a break-up. Some guys really do feel hurt and empty too. Having said that, they might not view having had sex with a gal as a regrettable thing or "losing out". Yeah, guys and gals tend to see sex differently huh?
prodigal_sun From: [info]prodigal_sun Date: 14th July 2005 17:25 (UTC) (Link)
"How do you pull back after having sex?"

Maybe it's just me. but i think this is phrased quite...strangely.
i thought of physical-pull back when i read it. :X
2dogsnme From: [info]2dogsnme Date: 14th July 2005 17:26 (UTC) (Link)
THANK YOU sunnie. thanks for ur input. *koff* (and no, I didn't mean putting it in. LOL)
prodigal_sun From: [info]prodigal_sun Date: 14th July 2005 17:47 (UTC) (Link)
Oh you're welcum.
buzz_cut From: [info]buzz_cut Date: 14th July 2005 18:16 (UTC) (Link)
Heh, withdrawal symptoms? ;)
2dogsnme From: [info]2dogsnme Date: 14th July 2005 18:20 (UTC) (Link)
yeah, they apparently cum with spasms. ;p
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